Aside from all of the moral implications and consequences, wouldn’t it be nice if there were a place called cheatersrus.com and men could openly find someone to practice infidelity? This would allow their prey to enter into an inclusive affair with them knowingly. Recently, I managed to score three for three and I’m starting to feel like I have big letters across my face that spell out smile if u r married. I am not saying that women don’t cheat and I even realize that when women do -often they’ll try to morally justify it by indicating “he was cheating, so I cheated too.” Sometimes, I hear women say that the prospects of suitable and available men are so low that married men have become an interest too. If this is the case, I propose that it’s time to start dating outside of your race. Well I can’t explain why I am attracting married men, but I can at least share some tell tale signs that he may already be in a committed relationship:
common threads between the three men I met are:
-their excuse for being unavailable is that they live far away like from LA to beyond Riverside
-I’ve noticed I run into them at the same LA spots, albeit they live far far away
-They are far too nice about volunteering to swing by my way but would never invite me to their place far far away
-They call at odd times and always abruptly end the phone call, even when they are not at work
-They all checked their social media accounts in front of me but don’t desire to connect with me through those social media sites
-In the middle of the night, they prefer texting instead of calling me at all during those times….ever
-When I decided to ask whether they were married or in a relationship, one responded “yes” and the other two said “no” and slowly but surely they all faded away
On the other hand….heck, what do I know, maybe they were not married… since I’ve always been attracted to a big ego type of guy, maybe they were all over the top and were all just narcissists? 🙂
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Valentine 